They use money to control you
Someone tells you what you're 'allowed' to spend money on. Or they won't let you access your joint account.
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When talking about financial and economic abuse, there's two terms you might see:
Survivors are people who have experienced financial or econnomic abuse.
Abusers (or perpetrators) are people who have carried out financial or economic abuse. Abusers could be partners, ex-partners, family members, or carers.
Financial abuse
When someone controls your money or has access to it. |
For example, an abuser could:
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Economic abuse
When someone limits your ability to earn, work, learn or live independently. |
For example, an abuser could:
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It can be hard to stop financial abuse. You might not know what to do, especially if you're being targeted by someone you love or someone close to you.
Take a look at the examples below of how an abuser may behave:
They make you feel ashamed
Someone makes you feel like you're bad with money.
They use money to control you
Someone tells you what you're 'allowed' to spend money on. Or they won't let you access your joint account.
They make you rely on them
Someone stops you from working or earning money, so you need them for support.
They take advantage of you financially
Someone offered to go shopping for you, but then started using your money without asking if they can.
They make you feel ashamed
Someone makes you feel like you're bad with money.
They make you rely on them
Someone stops you from working or earning money, so you need them for support.
They use money to control you
Someone tells you what you're 'allowed' to spend money on. Or they won't let you access your joint account.
They take advantage of you financially
Someone offered to go shopping for you, but then started using your money without asking if they can.
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It may help to use a device an abuser doesn't have access to, like:
Refuge runs a National Domestic Abuse Helpline for women and provides emotional and practical support. They can explain who else you could contact and refer you to other specialists, such as local outreach services and refuges.
To get help from Refuge, you can:
Respect runs the Men's Advice Line for men, including those who identify as trans and non-binary, who are experiencing domestic abuse (and the safety of any children). Their team offer conditional support, practical advice and information.
To get help from Respect, you can:
Galop is the UK's LGBT+ anti-abuse charity. They work with and for LGBT+ victims and survivors of abuse and violence.
To get help from Galop, you can:
Unseen works towards a world without slavery. They provide safehouses and support in the community for survivprs of trafficking and modern slavery.
To get help from Unseen, you can:
Local councils offer safeguarding support.
You can check which local council you live in through the government's find your local council service. You can then find you local adult safeguarding services from their website.
Refuge runs a National Domestic Abuse Helpline for women and provides emotional and practical support. They can explain who else you could contact and refer you to other specialists, such as local outreach services and refuges.
To get help from Refuge, you can:
Respect runs the Men's Advice Line for men, including those who identify as trans and non-binary, who are experiencing domestic abuse (and the safety of any children). Their team offer conditional support, practical advice and information.
To get help from Respect, you can:
Galop is the UK's LGBT+ anti-abuse charity. They work with and for LGBT+ victims and survivors of abuse and violence.
To get help from Galop, you can:
Hourglass works to prevent isolation, neglect and abuse of older people.
To get help from Hourglass you can:
Local councils offer safeguarding support.
You can check which local council you live in through the government's find your local council service. You can then find you local adult safeguarding services from their website.
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